Baby Steps toward better Space

I come from the school of hard knocks – and I mean that literally. In my house, emotions were something you kept to yourself. Empathy? Not exactly part of the family handbook. And I can promise you, when I took my first job at a local hardware store in high school, emotional well-being didn’t make the onboarding checklist.

It took me decades (and let’s just say a very well-funded therapy journey) to learn that feelings weren’t a weakness – they were vital signals. Signals I had ignored for far too long. But when I started listening, everything changed. Especially the way I led. And how I used space – at home, in the office, in every environment I touched – to foster healing, connection, and clarity.

Why Space Matters More Than Ever

If you’re like me – seasoned, experienced, maybe even closer to the back half of your career than the beginning – you might be surprised to learn that employee mental health and burnout are now top-three concerns for employers. For employees, it’s number one.

This isn’t a generational trend. It’s a human one. And as leaders, parents, partners, and mentors, we can’t afford to ignore it.

Post-pandemic, suicide rates reached an all-time high in 2022. Alarming as that is, the most striking shift is age: the suicide rate spiked among those aged 45–64, and it’s the second leading cause of death among teens and young adults. Mental health isn’t a “them” issue – it’s an “all of us” issue.

In Part 1, I shared how burnout showed up in my life and how I began to shift my mindset and energy. Today, I want to focus on the role of space in that transformation – and the simple, high-impact things we can do in our environments to support well-being.

Small Changes, Big Impact

Let’s be honest, I could write for days about this topic. But I promised baby steps. So here are a few light-lift, high-impact design moves that can reduce stress and anxiety in your space, whether you’re leading a business, a team, a school, or even just yourself:

  • Prioritize Movement with Height-Adjustable Tables – “Sitting is the new smoking” might sound like a cliché, but it’s true. Giving people the ability to change posture supports circulation, engagement, and energy.
  • Create Visual and Acoustic Boundaries – The ideal divider height today is 48″ – high enough for seated privacy, low enough to let in light and sightlines.
  • Open Access to Natural Light – Keep furnishings low and layouts open to help everyone benefit from daylight. Light is life.
  • Choose Calming, Purposeful Colors – Skip the sterile white walls. Consider:

Soft blues = calm like water and sky

Muted greens = restorative and natural

Warm whites/light beige = soft, neutral

Lilacs =soothing and serene

  • Bring Nature In – Plants reduce stress. Biophilic elements connect people to something deeper and quieter than their to-do list.
  • Offer Nourishment, Not Just Fuel – Stock real food. Fresh fruit. Less packaging, more intention.
  • Design a True Wellness Room – A space for rest, meditation, or quiet is no longer a luxury – it’s a necessity.
  • Encourage Movement, Not Just Attendance – Every 20 minutes, bodies and minds need a shift. Design for that. Create spaces that invite it.
  • Leaders Should Lead the Way – This might be the most important one: Use the space yourself. Take breaks. Walk. Reset. Model the behavior you want to see. People follow the energy you bring into the room.

The Bigger Picture

These steps may seem small, but they’re powerful cues that say: We see you. We value you. Your well-being matters here. (Psychological safety)

I’ve spent 30 years in the furnishings and design business. I know with certainty that good design is good business – but great space? That’s where leadership lives.

Let’s build spaces that aren’t just smart, but soulful. Let’s make space for what really matters.

I am here to help… contact me if you want to learn more or want to hear more on a topic that is relevant to you.

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